as a disclaimer you should know that i’m being kind of facetious when i use the word “gay”
i just think “pansexual” sounds pretentious and “bisexual” sounds like a diagnosis
i do find myself drawn to the political and sort of “other-y” connotations of the word “queer,” so i use that in circles where i feel like everyone’s in the know on gender and sex things, but for general purposes i find it raises more questions than it answers (which is sometimes what i want it to do but it’s a lot to get into at like, a family gathering or a party or what have you)
anyway the point is i have a girlfriend and males are okay too, basically anyone is okay, yes good
i just kind of have this silly idea that i can date and hook up with whomever i want and not call myself something different
and gay is a fun word
